Falling in love is like owning the whole world. Your worries are faded and you feel safe in your partner’s arms.
However, sometimes his love and passion for you are obvious, sometimes it could not be real. Therefore, you need to know for certain that it’s real forever and not just a current fantasy.
Here are the 8 signs you have found the man you want to spend the rest of your life with:
1. YOU DON’T NEED TO BE “ON” IN FRONT OF HIM
He understands who you are and does not expect you to be someone else. His eyes always indicate that you are special to him by just being yourself. There’s no pretending.
2. YOUR HAPPINESS IS HIS HAPPINESS AND VICE VERSA
You know that he is the best person because he is good for you in many ways. He wants what is best for you, even if it comes at a cost to him.
He can balance his career and the love relationship with you. Careers are more problematic than other things in life. However, he finds ways to let you know he has not forgotten about you. Therefore, he will always find time for you.
3. EVEN AT THE END OF A REALLY BAD DAY, ALL YOU WANT IS TO BE WITH HIM
When you want to fix your moods, you want to be with him than being alone. Therefore, you want his attention.
He listens to you every time without complaining about it. He would not invalidate your concerns with his honest feedback. He tries to influence his confidence and passion on you, which makes your relationship all more exciting.
4. THE ATTRACTION IS PALPABLE
You two are compatible on levels such as Physically, emotionally and mentally. The chemistry between you two is strong enough to block everything else out. Therefore, it feels like it is him that really matters out of everything.
Small things like running to the grocery store and eating snacks together feel more special because he is around.
5. YOU WANT TO SHARE EVERY EXPERIENCE WITH HIM
When you imagine your future, your man has a main role in it. You feel comfortable being with him. The idea of spending the rest of your life with him doesn’t give you a scary feeling.
When you hear some good news, you always want to share it with him first. A good man will encourage you to open up and share your feelings with him.
6. YOU HAVE THE SAME IDEA OF ROMANCE
In certain times, you feel like you are in a movie. Therefore, your definition of romance is dinners, long road trips, Surprises, cuddling in bed and kissing. He always takes some extra step to make that happen.
He always opens up to you because he has faith in you and wants to connect with you on a deeper level. He always is your man, but he is not afraid to show you a softer side either.
7. YOU LOVE MORE THAN YOU FIGHT
Fighting with each would not bring a happy feeling because you two care about each other. Therefore, negotiation always seems like the best option because you both can be happy. However, at the end of the day, you really can’t stay mad at each other for long.
8. HE STANDS BY YOU
You are crazy, louder and maybe less humorous, but he loves you for it. He makes you feel good about everything that you might dislike about yourself.
He shows you to his friends because he is very proud to call you his own. He commits his love and his time for you, there are no conditions or circumstances required. There will be good times and bad times. There will be challenges and unexpected situations that arise. But he will stay by your side always.
Any man can be by your side on the sunny days. The real test of character is whether or not he will hold the umbrella over you during the stormy days. If he puts effort to be this person for you, you need to know that you are finally with the correct man.
I am a Business Management graduate from the University Of Staffordshire (UK) and a qualified personnel officer who completed the National Diploma of Training and Human Resource development at Institute of Personnel Management (Sri-Lanka).
Apart from my professional career in the field of HRM, I am also a freelance writer of web and business contents.