Being in the friend zone sucks.

You really want to get this girl to be your official girlfriend, but she tells you that “we’d be better off as friends” or “I’m not ready for a relationship yet.”

In this article, you will learn how to leave the friend zone and make sure that she doesn’t end up with any other guy!

Make space between yourselves 

Whether you’ve been friendzoned for a while or she just flat out rejected you, this is what you need to do: leave her alone. 

  1. Stay away from her for at least 3 weeks
  2. Don’t talk to her for 3 weeks
  3. Don’t text her for 3 weeks

Waiting a couple weeks will allow her to forget about framing you as a friend, allowing you to get a fresh start. 

The last thing you want to do is run after her like a desperate guy because that’ll only make things worse:

  • Try to compliment her, she’ll see you as a creep
  • Try to kiss her, she’ll push you away
  • Try to hold her hand, she’ll avoid you
  • Continue talking to her and she’ll see you as a stalker


Stop acting like a friend

This second step is about becoming the type of guy that girls sexually desire and would never dream of putting you in the friend zone.

How do you do that?

Stop acting like a nice friend and reclaim your natural boldness!

Girls only friend zone guys that act like nice friends. The second you stop acting like a friend, is the moment you leave the friend zone.

Learn to chill out with women. Realize that women are naturally attracted to your masculinity, you just need to stop hiding it.

Always remember that you deserve pretty girls and being needy is totally unnecessary. 

Don’t be scared to show your brute strength! Playfight with girls and always make sure to tease them!

If you start developing these character traits, you’ll become the guy that friendzones girls and never the other way around!

Read more: 7 Tips to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship 

How To Leave The Friend Zone In 4 Steps
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Learn to be OK with yourself

As mentioned, being needy is a repulsive trait and you must root out any clinginess in you. 

But how can you do that? 

Well there are many ways, but one of my favorite techniques is to learn how to be alone without needing any distractions so that you develop self-love (which is the opposite of neediness).

Let me ask you this: 

When was the last time you spent time with yourself without any distractions? If you’re like most men, you probably can’t even remember!

So here’s what I recommend you do: set a time every day that you sit with yourself without doing anything and whenever you feel the urge to check Facebook, affirm how much you love yourself.

Guys that do this for more than a month report back to me that they have a greater sense of inner peace and feel a lot less needy around women.

Bottom line:

Guys that need women get the least women. Guys that don’t need women get the most women.

Read more: How To Truly Forgive And Move On From The Past: Psychologists Explain 

Approach the women you want

Let’s review:

  1. You’ve spend enough time apart
  2. You’ve stopped acting like a friend
  3. You’ve learn to be OK with yourself

Now you are officially ready to escape the friend zone and you have 2 options:

  1. Forget about your original crush and approach girls that are even more attractive
  2. Approach your original crush, but surprise her with your new bold personality and get her to fall in love with you

Either way is good, but I recommend option #1 because approaching new girls will improve your dating skills like nothing else!

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